How many times in life have you said I love you to someone, and you meant it?
Loving someone is the best feeling that you can have towards someone. It gives you an infinite amount of joy and heartache at the same time.
As loving someone is a feeling that we cannot be hide inside of us, we feel the need to say it loud.
Letting yourself be yourself, and your inner feelings out is a gift-giving process that will make you and your partner feel better.
Saying to our partner, “I love you” we expect them that without any hesitation to tell use, “I love you too”.
It breaks our heart if our partner instead of saying, “I love you too”, chooses to say, “I love spending time with you…” it ruins the whole thing.
Love must be unconditional and not based on whether it’s reciprocated, but at the end of the day, who wants to love and not being loved in return?
We need to be careful to find the perfect time to express our feelings to our partner.
Being told, ” I love you”, and showing it to someone, it gets pinned in your head as a beautiful memory. As per memories it needs to be a place that has that romantic spot view
Find out a few signs when it should be okay telling them, “I love you.”:
1. You have been in a long term relationship:
No relationship is the same as the other, so each one has its own story and limits.
Spending a lot of time with someone, going into places, traveling, and chasing dreams seems an excellent long term relationship. After doing all of these things together, you guys probably feel safe and comfortable with each other. It is okay if you tell your partner how you think that he or she is your lifestyle twin.
2. After the first fight:
Fighting with your partner is not the cutest thing that can happen in a relationship. But every argument that is made into a relationship is a rock that builds the connection between you.
The first fight is always the hardest one, you feel like everything is going to turn out in the worst way possible and if you do not want it to end, tell your partner how much they mean to you, tell your partner the word that screams inside of you, “ I love you.”.
3. Make sure you are on the same page:
Having feelings for someone not always means that someone has the same feelings towards you.
It is sad to know that you might love someone that loves someone else. Before telling someone “I love you”, make sure you guys are on the same page.
4. You feel like they’ll say it back:
It is always that sort of connection that demands to be felt. It is the feeling that your partner gives you that positive loving vibe.
If you can tell that you and your partner are ready to confront the situation after being told “ I love you”, and if you feel like your partner is saying it back to you, then congratulations, you can say it loud and be proud of it.
5. Who should say it first?
Okay, this is such a last life rule. Please stop sticking up to the past, and stop having these fantasies and stupid egos. When in love, there does not exist a “first-person doing something”.
It would be best if you told your feelings out loud when you feel like it is the right time. Love is not a door that a man should open for a woman. Love is something that happens, and it is such a wonderful feeling. Don’t waste it.