We all have had that looks vs. personality conversation with our mates. We all have been wondering if we can see through looks and find the personality instead.
Sometimes we go choosing someone to stay with only because they look great. Always well dressed up. No bad hair days, in their finest slay, is like choosing food only by its color. Yes, their color and not by its taste.
No, that is not cute. No, that is not okay. Definitely, no, that is not how you should choose and select people around you.
Looks should not be more critical than personality.
Someone is just born differently. Due to that, someone might call other people ugly or very beautiful. Remember: you are not the right one to judge anyone else for their looks. There is a reason why it is a war that is names Looks vs. Personality. Remember, God created people in a very delicate way. Their existence made to be accepted in this world just by the way they are. You can not and should not try to change it.
It is essential to know when and how to show up well dressed, to take care of your appearance.
The goal of humanity is not about wearing expensive clothes! It is not having the newest iPhone, and it is not having the fastest car around. It is all about being polite, caring, and being able to spread peace and love. Try to find someone that does not make you choose between sex and love, but you find in them both sex and love. Looks vs. personality should never exist on your mind when meeting someone new.
Personality is the mirror of the looks we seek to find.
Getting to know someone’s personality is about understanding a person the way he or she is. It talks more than looks. It tells about manners and the way they choose to do things and the way they think.
The best thing about personality is that it connects people. It helps in creating good relationships around. there is an inside story of every relationship. Character is the bridge that connects two or more souls to like shared interests. Making people laugh or cry that makes the relationship through bad times and good times, back and forth. Looks do not do this. Looks are not going to make somebody forget an argument, a fight, a bad memory. But a good joke or a smile or a gesture might.