In your 20s, everything will seem to be slipping out of your hands at the same time everything will be easy to solve. It is the part of life when you think about instead choosing to go into a relationship or working on your career.
Our 20s are the most precious time that we have. It is time we construct ourselves, build what is for a better future, and work on reaching goals.
Growing up strikes us, and it is stressful. We don’t have the time in the world for everything, and yet we think we have time to start a relationship. The part of our lives when we think that dating is the new black.
Relationships are time-consuming, and it is true. Going into a relationship keeps us away from working on ourselves and creating a career. Keeps us a bit away from being successful. You start investing your money on things that are not important instead of your needs.
Here are some of the bullet points that can help you decide whether you should be going into a relationship or be working on your career:
A career lasts longer than a relationship
Let’s not be someone who predicts the future. But being realistic relationships in the 20s do not last.
They consume all of your energy and time and make you spend money on something you don’t want to have memories stuck in your head. Also it requires to fit some sort of types, how would you find your dating type at this age?
Focus on you and your future. Look for great things for yourself, and the best will find you there. Focus on essential goals to reach the goals of your life. Work hard on your steps towards great things before you count steps leaving you alone.
Careers will make you rich an early relationship will waste it
Everything in a relationship will cost a lot. Always going into dates costs money. Getting dressed in the right clothes requires payment. Buying gifts costs money. You keep showing up fresh and delightful costs your time. Being able to text back, go out every night costs your time. Time is money.
Career, on the other hand, gives you back everything you gave from yourself to it.
Pays you for wasting time. It pays you for your attention. Pays you for staying up late. It reimburses you for every headache. Career pays you for every argument and disagreement. It is worth it every second that you give away for building your career and being someone in life.
A career does not ask you to meet its parents
Okay, relationships are all fun until it comes to meeting families part. It becomes stressful to turn that page of your life from dating to a serious relationship. Everyone fears this part, and it becomes awkward if you do not want to meet your partner’s parents. In a relationship the title you will change will only be married or divorced. Which none of them are something you can go out and be proud of. Okay, it is excellent to create a family, being someone’s someone. But not at your 20s! Changing your title at your career is something that you can be proud of telling for, and it also gives you bonuses. Having a job is a goal in the 20s, not a ring on your finger.
You don’t have to take your career out for dinner; actually, it takes you out for dinner
Not having a career but wanting to have a nice dinner with someone leads you into wanting to have a job. Having a career and wanting to take someone out for dinner leads you to thank yourself for actually having a career.