Here we are again, in December, when the lights and this magic of Christmas are twinkling at our doors – feeling the warmth and the need to be surrounded by our beloved ones.
It brings us joy and fulfills us with the most significant memories if we choose to spend it with the right ones.
What happens if you have a date at this time of the year?
How would you manage time?
What happens between the ideas of being a new you after New Year’s?
HAVING A DATE ON CHRISTMAS EVE
It is the view of every city that makes you fall in love on Christmas Eve.
If you are single and wanting someone by your side, it is entirely reasonable that at this time of winter, you might want that even more.
Having a date on Christmas Eve is exciting and lovely.
It is cute finding yourself under the mistletoe and having someone to kiss, and sorry to say, but it is not the best feeling being under the mistletoe alone.
However, enjoy the holidays in the best way possible, either if you are in a relationship or not.
MAKING TIME FOR EACH OTHER
Christmas time is known to be as the most party-breaker time of the year. You get invited to so many events trying to stay sober for the next workday, and it gets to be the busiest time of the year as well.
Making time for your partner in your calendar at this time of the year must depend on how long you guys have been together. If you have been together for weeks, maybe you have to take it slow. Go into two or three events together. You can go ice skating together that would be cute and fun. Also, on Christmas Eve, you can go for a movie, which would be cute and romantic as well.
It is fantastic to know that someone is making time for you during this time. You also must be understanding if your plans get canceled.
If you are in a long term relationship, you probably already are used to each other’s plans, and it just goes smoothly.
THE NEW YOU AFTER THE NEW YEARS
It is the most common promise we do to ourselves “New Year, new me.”
But what happens if the “new you” depends on someone else?
I mean, if in a relationship you cannot just wake up one morning and decide to be a different person. You can, but that would be a little bit unfair unless it’s for the better.
It’s very expected from people to have high hopes after the New Year’s, always for the better.
Every single one is after some changes, trying new stuff and searching for new possibilities.
It is just a habit created in our mind that we have to make it this year whatever we couldn’t in the year we are leaving behind.
I highly support that.
Try to be the new you, every single time that you have the chance to be.
Even if it turns out wrong, at least you tried for the better, for a better you. Never hold back yourself for another person and never settle for less. Try to figure out what both of you want, always look for the brighter side and choose it.