I think I’ve been infected with a dating virus because they started to make me sick.
Sometimes I feel like I have had enough dating people that give me mixed signals. I think I am so close to finding someone that I like, and it just turns the tables off.
Something happens, they say something, or do something stupid that ruins everything.
Pretending not to look after someone who is utterly perfect, and their life is all organized, it seems like I only happen to meet people that are the opposite of that.
What does being infected with a dating virus means?
It is like, you are getting sick with people you meet.
You either are making the wrong choices, or you are just dating in the wrong period.
It is like having some trouble finding the cure of your thoughts and feelings. Like you have some “getting along with people” flu. Some dating viruses that you got infected, and you need to get recovered from it.
It seems that every person that you date has something that turns you off. No match was found, and no reason to continue talking to that person is there.
And if this continues for an extended period, take a break. You will find yourself a good match after you feel good about going out on dates again.
Some people are worse than a virus
Okay, these are the kind of people that after you cut them off, they get attached.
You have had a crush on them, they have not, but after you cut it off, suddenly they are all over you.
They do not understand the way you want to get out of that kind of flirt or whatever its called now.
These people come after you, and it won’t help to wash your hands to keep yourself safe from them. This kind of people become the virus you tried to avoid.
For some people, you are the infection of dating
For some people, you might happen to be the one that infected them, and now they go from dating to dating. They enjoyed talking to you, being with you, but somehow you guys were not a match.
Your dating partner will keep looking to find you on every other date, plus the match they need.
You might have been the infection for that person, and now they can not get rid of it.
This, however, is not a bad thing.
You just helped them know what they are looking for while dating someone.