A long-distance relationship can be tough to function, but not impossible.
Many couples survive this long-distance relationship, even though it is not easy, and it requires a lot of effort.
What happens to us when we are in a long-distance relationship?
Love finds its way. If our partner is miles away and we have to wait for God knows when to see them again, it’s a sacrifice then.
Why is a long-distance relationship a sacrifice?
Because missing someone can cost our mood every day. We go from happy to sad, and from melancholy to the hope of seeing them soon. Wanting to live with this, accepting the situation, and believing in love is something that not everyone does.
It takes an influential person to go through all of that, defeating all of the fights in between. Beating the numbness, you feel when you feel all alone—the way of fighting the desire to hug your beloved because sometimes we need that hug. And we need that hug to be tight.
We become stronger. Only then we understand that no matter what, that person that lives miles away is the one person that everything is worth for.
That person that has our heart beating and screaming and loving them has all of the rights to be gone and live their life. Therefore, as we do understand the circumstances, we enter in a different zone of understanding our partner’s needs and desires.
Why miss someone that is far away when we can have someone close?
Love does not happen every day.
Also, love and fate are not something that you can choose to get, or you can predict to have.
Love happens, and if you are strong enough to keep it, distance does not matter.
It is painful and exhausting, knowing that your partner won’t be able to participate in many events that you would want them to join in. It is distressing that sometimes, you might need them by your side, without any reason. Someone we are in love with is always necessary to be there, present.
It is difficult; it is a rough battle, being in love, and having a long-distance relationship. But, no one ever said it is impossible.
A long-distance relationship can strengthen your relationship.
The long-distance relationship never means living apart and then dying alone.
It means only that for this period, which can be a very long one or a short one, you have to keep this long distance.
Being in this kind of relationship can frighten you up, and can turn off the lights of a romantic relationship. It can scare the hell out of a passionate relationship, but that is what it is all about. Love can make you find in yourself the strength to accept the situation and then go on with it.
If you truly love someone, you will go through this long-distance relationship and go back to looking at it as the most substantial part of your relationship.
Love was and will ever be a battle that is worth fighting.