Men and women don’t think the same way. It happens to be the most beautiful part of being part of this world and life, knowing that there are a lot of people and a lot of different minds, and it is pretty apparent that having to meet someone new is your opportunity to meet a new world. Men and women have too many different things they choose to express themselves, even if they’re dealing with things.
Find out what goes through a man’s mind when it comes to dating.
Easy going:
Men are known to be lazier than women. They want everything in their life in a straightforward way. The easygoing mood is on their brains most of the time.
It also applies when they decide to date, someone. Men don’t over-stress anything that is not necessarily something to be stressed about, they remain calm.
Being easygoing and straightforward does not mean that men are careless about things or people around them. They don’t like complicated things or situations.
Men find it attractive when women make their first move:
Men like to be in charge and most important they want to be seen that they are in charge. (most of the time).
But when they find a woman that is willing to be in charge, it is a big turn on. Men don’t fear the competition of someone else being in charge of the things he does. They fear to believe the wrong attitude of emotions towards them. They love it when women show their honest interest and willingness to always be in the front seat of the journey they are about to take even though it might be only two blocks long.
Put an X in your eagerness:
Okay, men like it when their woman is headstrong and knows what she wants. They love it when she points out the things she wants or does not do to reach her goals. But, eagerness is a thing or state of mind you don’t want it to follow up on your life. It brings both men and women to become a very toxic person.
Men don’t like to feel their woman eagerness or seeing her being thirsty about their future, such as planning a marriage or having kids after a short time of dating.
Women also hate being told how much her man on their second date loves her.
Men don’t think the same way because they don’t analyze so they need a loud message:
Forget about the idea of men knowing what you meant with that hair twirling. Nor with that last line, you said, and it was a metaphor. Men usually don’t like to read the unsaid words. Wanting to guess what his woman thought they would come out with a wrong conclusion.
Men need things spelled out to them. Not too direct, either. But they don’t like mixed signals, go on with only one sign and make sure that he read that correctly.
Men are shy:
If a man is not straightforwardly approached to people – he will find it difficult to be himself on a date.
Men are shy when it comes to being eye to eye with someone they like. It is the moment when they want themselves to be as good as their woman wants him to be. As thinking that they enter into a shy world of not knowing how to react to that.