Moving on like Dua Lipa is what you need after having a breakup.
Breakups can shake the future you’ve created in your mind. It is heartbreaking not being able to imagine yourself with another person, sometimes you don’t want another one.
However, it happens, and that should not scare you about your future.
The hardest thing to do after a breakup is moving on. Relationships can get us so attached and addicted to someone, and losing them can cause an emptiness in our life.
Get your things together and move on. If you find it difficult and painful, try to use these tips to make it easier for you. Just keep in mind, breakups are not the end of the world.
Tell yourself to accept the end of the relationship.
Talk to yourself before you ask someone for your situation. Convince yourself that the relationship you had is no longer there. Accepting this, you will find yourself in a better version of your thinkings. Stop wondering what you did wrong or how you could act better in different situations. A relationship comes to an end because one of you wasn’t happy, and this is fair enough.
You can not erase yesterday, give yourself time.
You can not just delete your memories. It will take time for you to heal and to recover yourself. Everything will be fresh, every memory that you had will come back like a flash, and it is okay. Give yourself some time to reflect and to accept this new condition.
Find yourself once again.
Being in a relationship never means losing yourself. We are just less focused on ourselves, and this happens unconsciously. Being single, right after a relationship, you begin to think much more about yourself, which is good. Try to find what you have been missing about yourself lately. Explore and start doing whatever it comes to your mind as a new activity.
Have fun with your friends.
While having fun with your friends, avoid conversations about your relationship. Never start a conversation that has anything to do with your ex, or you know it leads there. It never helps unless you need some advice. Otherwise, having fun is totally the opposite of having deep conversations that cause you bad feelings. Go out, have some drinks, plan trips, walk around the city. Attend workshops and any exciting thing that takes some time of your day and keeps you busy.
Moving on like Dua Lipa is scary.
As Dua Lipa said herself, “I’m all good already, so moved on is scary.”, sometimes it’s scary to move on fast. Goodbyes are painful, but if one decides to go, you should let them. Moving on pretty quickly is scary and suspicious because you wonder if you ever had feelings toward that person. It has nothing to do with it. Moving on and healing yourself in a short period shows that you are an adamant person. Valuating yourself that much that you don’t have to grave for an ended relationship is not something you should be scared of.
Be always someone that supports themselves the most. Being able to get over someone in a short period makes you ever put yourself first. Love yourself that much so in this way, you will get the love you think you deserve. And if you love yourself as you should, the love you will accept will not be less than you deserve. And you, my friend, deserve dozens of love.