Ghosting must be a a straightforward thing to do for people that can’t be committed.
Ghosting must also be a very heave feeling that a ghosted person in love has to carry.
Isn’t it funny how we are only one click away from people on the other side of the world? One-click away from finding the lifestyle twin?
You can see them, text them, hear them only by using social media. Get connected because it has never been easier.
It is super amazing how you can get in touch with a person every minute of their day. You are only one social media post away from others. That is somehow like living in a substantial BigBrother world.
Others can see us only when we want to.
But here comes the tricky part, being visible and real quick turning into a ghost.
We need to understand why we ghost people and also understand why people ghost us in return.
Wait, what does it mean ghosting people, and how do we know we are being ghosted?
Ghosting is cutting off a relationship by stopping all communication and contact with the partner. It happens without any apparent warning or justification. At the same time, it is cutting off the possibilities of the partner’s attempts to reach out or communicate.
People go around and ghost you for the same reasons. The most common one must be the fear of emotional explosions that one might have after a breakup.
Fear of the unknown reaction your partner may have if you would want to end a relationship. To avoid any emotional breakdown situation, most people decide to ghost from other people’s lives.
Did they ghost you?
Have a person turned the “quick replies” to ” a lifetime long replies”? It is a hint that you have been ghosted, my friend.
This person is no longer interested in you, and this is a way of telling.
It is the most unattractive, unpleasant feeling of being faded away. It might lead a person to overthink him/herself if there is anything wrong with them.
If they ignore your calls and texts and then reach out to you with a short meaning of words, they’re ghosting.
They are building their castle of Casper already.
Ghosted and ghosting
We have all been ghosted by someone at some point in our life.
If you haven’t been ghosted, you managed to ghost someone else. If, only if this is not familiar to you, you must be the most incredible and fantastic person around.
It is very imperative to know that in this world, chaos happens.
Sometimes it can not be seen. Sometimes it happens in our head only, and if it happens in our head, it happens in others’ heads too.
Being ghosted does not mean that you did something wrong.
It doesn’t mean that you said anything stupid. Sometimes it is not about you; most of the times are about the person that is ghosting you.
It is wrong ghosting people for so many reasons that affect both you and the partner you are ghosting.
While ghosting someone, you will think that ghosting will help you on forgetting that person. At the same time, you will be under this strange effect. You will avoid places where you possibly will see that person again . Being in the same place with someone you have been ghosting will lead you to have this weird feeling.
One must understand that communication is the key to everything. Try to end every relationship you want to stop by telling them it is over. This way, you will feel completely free and in peace, and it will hurt less.
Ghosted people must understand that it is more than okay for some people to fade away from their life. They have to continue working on themselves first than to try to fix any relationship they have with others.