You cannot force the connection between you and another person.
Being connected to someone means understanding their thoughts. Not only understanding their feelings but also thinking alike. If you find yourself forcing the connection between you and another person, please stop it.
It is not supposed to force a connection; the connection is supposed to be there. A link between two people exists; therefore, everything else happens.
Do not try to fit in with some kind of people that you do not feel you belong beside them.
If your playlist does not match with their playlist, don’t you dare to change it.
Having a connection with someone is living a fairytale, but you shouldn’t persuade yourself into it.
It is supposed to happen naturally.
Pay close attention to people around you, then ask yourself why they are that close to you.
A relationship is supposed to fulfill the needs and the emptiness that we feel when being alone.
You cannot force the connection between you just because you want to.
Finding a partner that knows how to speak to your soul is a choice that you make. People find it difficult to let themselves to be seen and to show their true selves to one another.
Therefore, it is hard to tell and see what the other person wants and needs. Connections, on the other hand, sometimes happen without us knowing it.
It must be the most excellent feeling to have someone that truthful that you don’t doubt their presence during your life. Someone you can count on no matter what, because you create that secure connection with that someone.
Life is a journey, and this journey can be very long and sometimes hard. Through this journey, you don’t want to travel alone. Since we have this feeling of wanting to have someone that we can talk to, someone who understands every language of our body, a connection is a must.
If you feel like you don’t have such a relationship with someone, don’t feel like you missed something along the way. People that surround you can be vital to you, but being important does not mean that there is this connection in between.
Falling in love sometimes is not reciprocal.
If in love with someone, you should understand that love is a feeling coming just by your side first. If that love is reciprocal, then congratulations, but don’t try to change yourself or any goal of yours to make another one fall into you. Trying to force a connection creates a connection you don’t want to have.
Try to get to know yourself first. Try to understand what you want in life and what kind of people you need around. After finding these two things, you have found the key to happiness and peace.
Forget being sensitive to people that have left you behind. Forgive yourself first then others for not being a match with who you wanted. Don’t throw bullets of guilt to yourself; you should not force love and connection. Love and relationship between two people will happen when the time comes, be patient for it.